Here are Prospective Queer Parents (PQP) free ads for people seeking parenting or known donor arrangements with other queer prospective parents. If you are interested in adding your free ad, please email ads@queerparents.org. Please include your geographic location (including your city), an ad title and a reply-to email address. You may include a photo file (png format preferred, gif or jpg accepted). Please be aware that posting an ad to this page is like posting it to a public bulletin board visible to people from anywhere on or perhaps also off the planet. Please also note that by making any use whatsoever of the ads on this page you are expressly denying any liability on the part of PQP or its organizers for any consequences of your use of these ads. We wish you the best of success in your parenting ventures!
Here is a list of the current ads (click on the one you want to jump to):
I am a black male interested in fathering a child. I would like to share this experience with an individual or a couple. Financial responsibility is not a problem but should be fifty-fifty. I am currently attending a nursing program in the Dearborn, MI area. I will complete this program within the next eighteen months. I live in the Detroit area. I am financially stable. I run my own business and am currently seeking a college degree. I am 5'7" at 135 lbs. I am brown skinned and handsome.
If interested please
respond: Finney357@aol.com.
[Submitted 4 July and posted 18 July 2002]
I'm 39, and have fathered a boy, and 2 girls... I'm 5'7", 167lbs., brown eyes and skin. I have attended college, I'm drug/disease free, non-smoker. The insemination method is your choice. I will sign off parental rights. I can be an unknown or known donor. Travel, medical testing, and expenses are paid by intended parent/s.
E-mail: al49005@yahoo.com for questions or info.
Thank you.
[Submitted 23 April and Posted 24 April 2002]
Hello, I'm a black straight acting gay male who is looking for a couple or single lesbian to co-parent with. Send me an e-mail and we can talk and come to an agreement.
E-mail: jessieboy39@aol.com
[Submitted 15 April 2002 and posted 19 April 2002]
6'4 Dark hair and eyes, tall dark and handsome, European white male. Educated and professional. No drugs, No diseases, serious women looking for very fertile sperm contact me today. Insemination method is your choice.
I can be involved or not be involved. Will travel to other states if needed..
E-mail: jedward90@hotmail.com
[Submitted and posted on 11 April 2002]
I am a healthy white 46 y/o male seeking to help others build their families by donating sperm. I am 6 feet tall, 185 lbs, dark hair and eyes, and attractive in appearance.
I am bright, college educated, and drug/disease free.
I have already fathered two fine daughters. If the mother/couple wish no contact with me after conception I can accept that. However, I am open to other options as well.
E-mail jpb1955@msn.com for more information.
[Submitted 15 March 2002 and posted on 16 March 2002]
I am a 27 y/o gay man whom is married to a 38 y/o gay man. We are looking for a known/ or not donor who could carry a baby for us, and we are looking forward to having a baby. My life partner and I want kids and would love to have the gift of a healthy baby soon. We are mentally, emotionally, and physically able to love and care for a child.
Must be drug and disease free. Non-smoker. Please be physically fit and emotionally and mentally stable. Be willing to give a medical history, etc if needed. You as a donor, if willing, will be able to see the child and be known at whatever title we may agree upon. But you will not have any say so in the child's rearing. If my ad intrigues you and you are sincere please do not hestitate to e-mail me with a photo. If there is a lesbian couple out there that wants help having kids.. I will donate sperm for you to have a kid if you have a kid for us too. And I will also pay the hospital bills for our kid...Hope to talk to someone soon and get going...E-mail me at vereeke01@aol.com
[Submitted and posted on 14 February 2002]
I am a 27 y/o multiracial lesbian whom is engaged to a 35 y/o lesbian mom. We are looking for a known/ or not donor. I will be carrying the baby, and am looking forward to getting pregnant. My life partner has three children, I myself have not had the pleasure of having a child. I have some college background in the psychology field. I intend to finish school within the next 2 years. I would love to have the gift of a healthy baby by next Christmas. I was an only child and would possibly like to have two by the same donor. I'm mentally, emotionally, and physically able to love and care for a child. We are looking for someone of a fair or tanned complexion. Must be drug and disease free. Non-smoker and social drinker is preferred. Please be physically fit and emotionally and mentally stable. Be willing to give a medical history etc. in case needed. You as a donor, if willing, will be able to see the child and be known at whatever title we may agree upon. But you will not have any say in the child's' rearing. If my ad intrigues you and you are sincere please do not hesitate to e-mail me with a photo (if possible). I look forward to hearing from you. Just as a side note: If it can be discussed and co-parenting is an option, that will be great as well. You can reach me at chynnapooh@yahoo.com
[Submitted on 18 November 2001 and posted on 16 January 2002]
Female couple seeking healthy, African-American/bi racial, heterosexual male to father a child.
Child bearer is a school teacher; healthy/disease free; athletic; mentally stable with no genetic physical/mental health abnormalities. She is 25 years old with no children and no previous pregnancies. She has no history of drug/alcohol use.
Prospective father will have no parenting responsibilities (unless he desires to do so). He should be willing to take health related tests (i.e. HIV, mental health evaluation, etc.) at our expense.
We prefer that he live in the Michigan, Ohio or Illinois areas. We will also consider some areas of Canada.
Serious inquiries only. Discretion is a must! Must be willing to provide photos. Please reply to shadidoll@blackplanet.com
[Submitted 8 January 2002 and posted on 16 January 2002]
We are a a gay couple able to care for a child. I am a 26 y/o male who is in a relationship with a wonderful man. He is 30 y/o and is a great father himself. He has a 9 y/o son who is doing well and has a wonderful relationship with his son's mother. I know we would make great parents. We hope that someone will help us in this endeavor. We have a beautiful home in Milford, MI.
We are financially stable. He is a Manager of a Johnny Rockets. I am a server at the same place. I have a very flexible schedule, so I can care for my child. We have talked about this for years and hope that some day we will find someone who understands.
Our email address is WLeeGlen@aol.com
[Submitted 23 Jan 2001 and posted 30 Jan 2001]
We are a lesbian couple, together for 2 years and look forward to a long and loving life together. Due to my partner's career as a Special Education Administrator I have the ability to be a stay-at-home Mom which I look forward to very much. I have a 15 year old daughter who I have raised with much acceptance of all lifestyles. She is a well adjusted teenager (if that's possible). I am 30 years old and very much desire a second child. My life partner is very supportive of this decision we have made together. We are looking for a donor for insemination purposes near or within the Detroit Michigan area who is mentally stable, drug and disease free, and has proof of HIV negative status. I prefer white, Native American or Arabic so the child will have features similar to my first child. Of course I also desire a good disposition, intellect, and a sense of humor. I am a Caucasian female, 5'6" tall with blue eyes and light brown hair. I am in good health. We seek no emotional or financial attachment but would consider acknowledging your parentage. To assist us in meeting our lifelong goal please contact us at Tabooo4u@aol.com. Thank you.
[Submitted 6 Aug 2000 and posted on 23 Jan 2001]