Here are Prospective Queer Parents (PQP) free ads for people seeking parenting or known donor arrangements with other queer prospective parents. If you are interested in adding your free ad, please email ads@queerparents.org. Please include your geographic location (including your city), an ad title and a reply-to email address. You may include a photo file (png format preferred, gif or jpg accepted). Please be aware that posting an ad to this page is like posting it to a public bulletin board visible to people from anywhere on or perhaps also off the planet. Please also note that by making any use whatsoever of the ads on this page you are expressly denying any liability on the part of PQP or its organizers for any consequences of your use of these ads. We wish you the best of success in your parenting ventures!
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We are a stable lesbian couple in a long term relationship. We have one child and are ready to expand our family. We are looking for a man who is intelligent, witty, outgoing and handsome to become our donor. If you are interested in helping us, please contact us at : WildRagz@aol.com
[Submitted 29 July 2002 and posted 01 August 2002]
To Whom it May Concern:
We would like to submit an ad to your page; all information is below:
We are a stable married couple. We have been together for 14 years. We love children and would love to have the blessing of a healthy baby. We have been so fortunate, and we want to share our love and lives with a child. We are mentally, emotionally, and physically fit and able to love and care for a child. We are also investigating other surrogate methods and adoption (home study is complete), but have been disappointed by the limited options for prospective gay parents.
We own our home in Galveston. We have a dog and a cat and very supportive families. Dad #1 is 35, a child and family psychotherapist and writer of European descent, 6'1" with brown hair and green eyes. Dad #2 is 33, a floral designer also of European descent, artistic, 5'10" with brown hair and brown eyes. We are still very much in love.
We would like to enter into an agreement with a lesbian couple/single female (healthy, D & D free like us) with the goal of creating a child for us. We will donate sperm for you to have a child of your own if you have a child for us. We will cover all of the medical expenses for the pregnancy. We would have nothing to do with each other's children.
We are looking forward to meeting with you. Please be willing to give a medical history, etc.
Please let us know if this is a possibility. We are willing to travel (within reason) to meet you. If you are sincere, please do not hesitate to e-mail us at graycats@hotmail.com.
Thank You,
Timothy W.
[Submitted 1 July 2002 and posted 18 July 2002]
Hello!
We are Kim and Michelle, two lesbian women in a committed relationship living in Austin, Texas. We are currently raising children from Kim's previous marriage and want to experience the joy of pregnancy and childbirth together. We are anxiously anxiously awaiting this fall of 2002, as that is when we plan to begin inseminations. We are looking for a man who is wanting to give the gift of life to a couple. We are o.k. with you being involved in the child's life in a way that we all agree upon. We will retain all parental rights, and you will not be under any financial or legal obligation and are willing to sign papers as such. BUT we do want our child to know who their biological father is, and to that end would welcome your involvement. Because my children from my previous marriage know and have contact with their father, we feel it is only fitting and appropriate that this child-to-be has that same privilege. We welcome all inquiries and hope to connect with someone soon. Please be drug-free and HIV negative as well as free from all other diseases. A knowledge of your family's medical background is necessary. You should be willing to tell us about any testing you have had recently. We also would like to know how many other children have been conceived with your help :o)
A tall man of European descent, with green eyes would be a bonus!
We look forward to hearing from you!
Sincerely,
Kim and Michelle
E-mail: twomomsntexas@yahoo.com
[Submitted 17 April and posted 19 April 2002]
Caucasian male, handsome, intelligent, successful in business, community, and family, offers gift of life via sperm donation. I am 5 ft 9, 150 lbs, 42 yrs old, very athletic body, with a calm, outgoing yet reflective personality.
Interested in a wide range of subjects from sports to gardening, wine to travel. Music to fine arts.
I am totally clean - no illnesses, no diseases. Relatives have no family history of illnesses and have lived into their 90's.
Please email livelyone6975080@yahoo.com for more information.
[Submitted and posted on 16 March 2002]
Hi! We are a lesbian family of 4. Two "mom's", one 12 year
old daughter, and one 6 year old son. All four of us decided
we would like there to be one more child in our family. We
are a Christian family with a lot of love to give. Mom #1
is a legal secretary and Mom #2 is in law enforcement.
(don't hold it against me! hee hee) We are looking for a
sperm donor who is 5' 7" or taller. We would like you to
have dark brown hair, blue eyes and olive skin color. You
must be disease free and drug free. If you drink, we would
ask that you stop during the attempts to get pregnant.
Contact at the childs 18th birthday only. We don't mind
sending you pictures, but you would only be a friend until
the child is old enough to understand. We do not want nor
expect financial help from you. If you are truly
interested in helping us, please contact us. If and when
the time is right, pictures can be exchanged. Please help
us to make our family grow. Contact us at
froggey4robin@yahoo.com
GOD BLESS YOU
[Submitted and posted on 24 February 2002]
I have a Masters degree and am a technical manager in Houston, Texas, but I will consider relocating anywhere in the US to start a family with the right woman. I am very stable, level-headed, understanding, and caring. I envisage our own kind of family relationship, unconventional though it may be, where we can all explore the full range of life's pleasures including bringing forth and nurturing a cherished new life.
Those who might have an interest, do write. Let's get to know each other better. My email is maex@mailexcite.com.
James Lee
[Submitted and posted after edits on 10 Oct 1998 and last verified on 04 Feb 1999.]
Sperm Donor Available
27 year old, Brown hair, Brown eyes, 6 foot tall, Healthy, HIV negative, non smoker, non drinker. Please e-mail me at MARTINBRANDON956@aol.com to find out more. My name is Brandon. I live and work in Houston but will travel to Dallas, Austin and San Antonio.
[Submitted and posted on 23 Feb 2003.]